People spend so much time in search for a significant other. They end up investing more in others than in themselves. Gradually you lose pieces of yourself and lose perspective as to who you are and why you are here. Sadly, it is not promised that you will ever find and end up with that special person.
Think about it. What if a psychic told you today that you would never marry, what would you do? Hopefully, not leap off the biggest building. Is being single the worst fate bestowed on man? Do you consider a single life less richer than a married one?
It is time to face that reality. Instead of grabbing a bottle or the throwing all your best tricks at first person who you deem as marriage material, try finding your place in life independent of a partner. Figure out how to financially, emotionally and physically take care of yourself. Don't do it in hopes that Mr. or Mrs. Right will come along. Instead do it because life is too short. Your life is a gift just the way it is. Make the most out of what you have instead of focusing on what you don't.
Monday, March 30, 2009
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